During a candid conversation, the mother of two reflected on her personal journey. She emphasized that a woman who has healed and grown from her past experiences is still worthy of love.
Kaffy questioned the societal preference for unmarried partners, noting that a couple’s marital status is no guarantee of a lasting relationship. “Why do people feel like I need to marry him fresh and I need to marry her fresh? Yet both of you are going into the same world where over 70% of marriages have crashed. What’s the guarantee?” she asked.
Kaffy also addressed a common misconception about romance, stating that many people confuse anxiety with love. She clarified that the “butterflies in your stomach” feeling is often a trauma response, while genuine love brings a sense of peace.
Despite the difficult end of her marriage, Kaffy shared that she has dedicated the past decade to personal growth while responsibly raising her children. She even recalled her kids’ support, saying, “My kids even told me to leave if I had to.
At 45, Kaffy acknowledged that she is still healing, but she refuses to let her divorce define her worth or her ability to love and be loved again. She sees it as a part of her journey toward growth.